dhs4K01: February 2005
Monday, February 28, 2005

i now know wad i want in life

this:the rafflesian card

just because.


「 ho posted at 11:21 AM 」
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Friday, February 25, 2005

Great Remix!

This song is GREAT! Certain parts sound quite 牽強 though, but it's still powerful!

http://www.digicammate.com/other/20050127.mp3

《刺激2005》
还记得吗(最熟悉的陌生人)
我们在机场的车站(你的背包)
你找个借口让我接受(爱不爱我)
直到视线变得模糊(至少还有你)
整夜都闭不了眼睛(听海)
你与我之间有谁(情人)
一九九五年(你的背包)
比以往时候来的更晚一些(2002年的第一场雪)
静静看你走一点都不像我(开始懂了)
盼不到我爱的人(爱我的人和我爱的人)
风再大又怎样(流星雨)
我要带你飞到天上去(小薇)
为你付出那种伤心你永远不了解(痴心绝对)
感觉有那么甜我那么依恋(断点)
相信那一天抵过永远(江南)
只是他们还不够单纯(月亮可以代表我的心)
手牵手一步两步三步四步望着天(星晴)
你却把别人拥在怀里(太委屈)
无论情节浪漫或多离奇(彩虹)
我的爱就有意义(勇气)
我唯一爱的就是你(爱的就是你)

让我们忘了那片海(那片海)
只要你过得比我好

Wonder how can people be so free to come out with something like this...


「 Hiu Yeung posted at 10:53 PM 」
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Wednesday, February 23, 2005

catching howl's.

yo.
can we watch howl's moving castle on 11march fri??? considering that e guys can only make it on weekends. i cant make it this or next sat.. next fri i am watching sth else. for now, it's me and soak yee and xiaoyang who want to watch. Anybody else? Xiaoyang weekday u can? lower cost.


「 Siew Kuang posted at 6:51 PM 」
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Monday, February 21, 2005


amies dans de cheesecake cafe 290105 Posted by Hello


「 Siew Kuang posted at 4:47 PM 」
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caring for your introvert

I was flipping through my Psych readings, and found this article. Thought it was absolutely hilarious (was sniggering in the study den as i read it), so I poked around online a bit, and managed to find it. It's not meant to be taken seriously, so do read with a pinch of salt...

It's funny! Do read!

Oh, and GCS? It may be an answer to your "Am I anti-social?" question... (speaking of which, technically, in psychology, a person with anti-social personality disorder is someone who shows a "lack of concern toward the expectations and rules of society and usually frequently become involved in at least minor violations of the rules of society and the rights of others. A popular term for this type of individual is 'sociopath'." in other words, your everyday serial killer...)


Caring for Your Introvert
By Jonathan Rauch, The Atlantic Online


The subtitle of this article as it appeared in the March, 2003 issue of the Atlantic Monthly is "the habits and needs of a little-understood group." It is a humorous and informative piece by the self-confessed introverted author.

Do you know someone who needs hours alone every day? Who loves quiet conversations about feelings or ideas, and can give a dynamite presentation to a big audience, but seems awkward in groups and maladroit at small talk? Who has to be dragged to parties and then needs the rest of the day to recuperate? Who growls or scowls or grunts or winces when accosted with pleasantries by people who are just trying to be nice?

If so, do you tell this person he is "too serious," or ask if he is okay? Regard him as aloof, arrogant, rude? Redouble your efforts to draw him out?

If you answered yes to these questions, chances are that you have an introvert on your hands-and that you aren't caring for him properly. Science has learned a good deal in recent years about the habits and requirements of introverts. It has even learned, by means of brain scans, that introverts process information differently from other people (I am not making this up). If you are behind the curve on this important matter, be reassured that you are not alone. Introverts may be common, but they are also among the most misunderstood and aggrieved groups in America, possibly the world.

I know. My name is Jonathan, and I am an introvert.

Oh, for years I denied it. After all, I have good social skills. I am not morose or misanthropic. Usually. I am far from shy. I love long conversations that explore intimate thoughts or passionate interests. But at last I have self-identified and come out to my friends and colleagues. In doing so, I have found myself liberated from any number of damaging misconceptions and stereotypes. Now I am here to tell you what you need to know in order to respond sensitively and supportively to your own introverted family members, friends, and colleagues. Remember, someone you know, respect, and interact with every day is an introvert, and you are probably driving this person nuts. It pays to learn the warning signs.

What is introversion?

In its modern sense, the concept goes back to the 1920s and the psychologist Carl Jung. Today it is a mainstay of personality tests, including the widely used Myers-Briggs Type Indicator. Introverts are not necessarily shy. Shy people are anxious or frightened or self-excoriating in social settings; introverts generally are not. Introverts are also not misanthropic, though some of us do go along with Sartre as far as to say "Hell is other people at breakfast." Rather, introverts are people who find other people tiring.

Extroverts are energized by people, and wilt or fade when alone. They often seem bored by themselves, in both senses of the expression. Leave an extrovert alone for two minutes and he will reach for his cell phone. In contrast, after an hour or two of being socially "on," we introverts need to turn off and recharge. My own formula is roughly two hours alone for every hour of socializing. This isn't antisocial. It isn't a sign of depression. It does not call for medication. For introverts, to be alone with our thoughts is as restorative as sleeping, as nourishing as eating. Our motto: "I'm okay, you're okay-in small doses."

How many people are introverts?

I performed exhaustive research on this question, in the form of a quick Google search. The answer: About 25 percent. Or: Just under half. Or—my favorite—"a minority in the regular population but a majority in the gifted population."

Are introverts misunderstood?

Wildly. That, it appears, is our lot in life. "It is very difficult for an extrovert to understand an introvert," write the education experts Jill D. Burruss and Lisa Kaenzig. (They are also the source of the quotation in the previous paragraph.) Extroverts are easy for introverts to understand, because extroverts spend so much of their time working out who they are in voluble, and frequently inescapable, interaction with other people. They are as inscrutable as puppy dogs. But the street does not run both ways. Extroverts have little or no grasp of introversion. They assume that company, especially their own, is always welcome. They cannot imagine why someone would need to be alone; indeed, they often take umbrage at the suggestion. As often as I have tried to explain the matter to extroverts, I have never sensed that any of them really understood. They listen for a moment and then go back to barking and yipping.

Are introverts oppressed?

I would have to say so. For one thing, extroverts are overrepresented in politics, a profession in which only the garrulous are really comfortable. Look at George W. Bush. Look at Bill Clinton. They seem to come fully to life only around other people. To think of the few introverts who did rise to the top in politics—Calvin Coolidge, Richard Nixon—is merely to drive home the point. With the possible exception of Ronald Reagan, whose fabled aloofness and privateness were probably signs of a deep introverted streak (many actors, I've read, are introverts, and many introverts, when socializing, feel like actors), introverts are not considered "naturals" in politics.

Extroverts therefore dominate public life. This is a pity. If we introverts ran the world, it would no doubt be a calmer, saner, more peaceful sort of place. As Coolidge is supposed to have said, "Don't you know that four fifths of all our troubles in this life would disappear if we would just sit down and keep still?" (He is also supposed to have said, "If you don't say anything, you won't be called on to repeat it." The only thing a true introvert dislikes more than talking about himself is repeating himself.)

With their endless appetite for talk and attention, extroverts also dominate social life, so they tend to set expectations. In our extrovertist society, being outgoing is considered normal and therefore desirable, a mark of happiness, confidence, leadership. Extroverts are seen as bighearted, vibrant, warm, empathic. "People person" is a compliment. Introverts are described with words like "guarded," "loner," "reserved," "taciturn," "self-contained," "private"—narrow, ungenerous words, words that suggest emotional parsimony and smallness of personality. Female introverts, I suspect, must suffer especially. In certain circles, particularly in the Midwest, a man can still sometimes get away with being what they used to call a strong and silent type; introverted women, lacking that alternative, are even more likely than men to be perceived as timid, withdrawn, haughty.

Are introverts arrogant?

Hardly. I suppose this common misconception has to do with our being more intelligent, more reflective, more independent, more level-headed, more refined, and more sensitive than extroverts. Also, it is probably due to our lack of small talk, a lack that extroverts often mistake for disdain. We tend to think before talking, whereas extroverts tend to think by talking, which is why their meetings never last less than six hours. "Introverts," writes a perceptive fellow named Thomas P. Crouser, in an online review of a recent book called Why Should Extroverts Make All the Money? (I'm not making that up, either), "are driven to distraction by the semi-internal dialogue extroverts tend to conduct. Introverts don't outwardly complain, instead roll their eyes and silently curse the darkness." Just so.

The worst of it is that extroverts have no idea of the torment they put us through. Sometimes, as we gasp for air amid the fog of their 98-percent-content-free talk, we wonder if extroverts even bother to listen to themselves. Still, we endure stoically, because the etiquette books—written, no doubt, by extroverts—regard declining to banter as rude and gaps in conversation as awkward. We can only dream that someday, when our condition is more widely understood, when perhaps an Introverts' Rights movement has blossomed and borne fruit, it will not be impolite to say "I'm an introvert. You are a wonderful person and I like you. But now please shush."

How can I let the introvert in my life know that I support him and respect his choice?

First, recognize that it's not a choice. It's not a lifestyle. It's an orientation.

Second, when you see an introvert lost in thought, don't say "What's the matter?" or "Are you all right?"

Third, don't say anything else, either.


—© Copyright 2003, the Atlantic Monthly Group
Jonathan Rauch is a correspondent for The Atlantic and a senior writer for National Journal.


P.S. I know I'm kind of infringing on copyright and stuff, but... it's a funny article! And funny things should be shared... Do forgive me this teeny little transgression then, O-Most-High-Up-Authorities?


「 xu posted at 6:59 AM 」
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*rebirth*

yesterday... was incredible.... O_O my heart! oh it wells with music!!! NOBUO UEMATSU IS A GENIUS!!!!! OMG!!!!! never again will i ever be able to listen to another brand of music without feeling heartache! oh!! to hear the strains of one-winged angel in its full orchestral glory once more! to see nobuo uematsu in PERSON again! him! the god of FF music!!!! standing a few metres away from me!!!! words cannot describe the meaning of good music! it speaks to the soul!!! ahhhhhh!!!!!

*must now curb instinct to visit gamemusic.com* GAH!!!!

on another note... i thoroughly apologise for my incoherence... am still floating from after the concert!!!! nobuo uematsu!!!


「 ho posted at 3:53 AM 」
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Tuesday, February 15, 2005

Howl's

The freaking tagboard refuses to reflect the website... There you go. That's the official release date for Singapore...
http://www.gv.com.sg/Booking/movies/moviedetails_1568.htm


「 Hiu Yeung posted at 9:16 PM 」
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Sunday, February 13, 2005

Anti Social Poll

My friends here just say I am anti- social! haha, everyone do tell me to what extent this is true


「 coolgoh posted at 11:44 AM 」
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Thursday, February 10, 2005

HAPPIE NEW YEAR

Hey guys! happy new year. Wish everyone to be safe and happy for the year to come. No STRESS! All take care. Me doing DO duty now.


「 WeiHong posted at 1:39 AM 」
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Wednesday, February 09, 2005

Humorous article on politics

How to win at politics

For 500 years his name has been synonymous with ruthlessness, manipulation and backstabbing. But could the much-maligned Machiavelli tell us the truth about politics in our time? Jonathan Jones on why Brown and Blair have much to learn from a 16th-century thinker

Wednesday January 12, 2005
The Guardian


The 16th-century political thinker Niccolò Machiavelli knew how to get rid of a troublesome minister, even a chancellor. Modern leaders fret and fuss and fall out. They make promises and ask them and time their speeches to upstage one another. Really, it's all so lily-livered. In Machiavelli's Florence, Tony Blair would have had Gordon Brown quietly poisoned by now, and if not, he himself would be food for eels in the river Arno.

Machiavelli admiringly relates, in his classic political manual The Prince, how Cesare Borgia "sacked" a minister, Remirro de Orco, whom he had appointed to clean up the large region of central and eastern Italy that he had recently conquered. Remirro was a "cruel and effective man", who imposed order and sorted out the brigands, but he also made himself - and therefore his boss, Cesare - hated. So when Cesare was satisfied that the Romagna was under control, he took measures to rid himself of his redundant associate. Remirro was discovered early one morning in the town of Cesena, "cut in two pieces on the piazza, next to a block of wood and a bloody knife", says Machiavelli. "The ferocity of this spectacle ensured the people were simultaneously satisfied and stupefied." With one stroke - although it took several, probably, to cut someone in half with a knife - Borgia enhanced his authority, and proved he was responsive to public opinion.

Machiavelli tells this story gleefully and with approval. It typifies the advocacy of ruthlessness that has made his masterpiece The Prince - a thin, sharp stiletto of a book - and his other, longer masterpiece, the Discourses on Livy, both published in the early 1530s after their author's death in 1527, scandalous.

For nearly 500 years, Machiavelli's name has been a synonym for deception, manipulation and sheer political nastiness. The no longer festering but blackened and fly-blown relationship between Tony Blair and Gordon Brown once more revives his velvet-robed spectre. The cloak-and-dagger quality of New Labour politics makes it seem as if we are being governed by adepts of conspiracy whose bedside reading is Il Principe as Blair lulls his victim with false promises, Brown fears he will be sacked for no reason; and the lies and paranoia are multiplied by covert briefings, first of journalists, and now of a biographer, much as a Medici prince might have told his side of things to Machiavelli or more likely his friend the historian Francesco Guicciardini. As it happens, Blair has holidayed with Guicciardini's Tuscan descendants.

The way Blair, Brown and their respective cohorts never choose to do something straightforwardly and in the open if it can be done behind closed doors and with a smirk makes them true and accomplished Machevills, to use the word popularised by the Elizabethan dramatist Christopher Marlowe, himself a spy, who has Machiavelli appear on stage to introduce The Jew of Malta. Translations of The Prince in the 16th and 17th centuries come with Christian health warnings not to be seduced by the "poison" and "atheisme" of Machiavelli.

Still, today, he is outrageous. Think about this: how amazing, that anyone's ideas should be controversial after five centuries. Machiavelli expressed a certain attitude to power - it's a good thing, and the problem is how to get and keep it - so well that he has never become out dated. Marx and Nietzsche both repeat his ideas, while Lenin was being a pure machiavellian when he said the question about power is "Who? Whom?". One contemporary anthropological theory has it that social intelligence - the ability to achieve goals through the manipulation and deception of one's peers - was the earliest kind of intelligence to evolve. The Cambridge University anthropologists who concocted this idea base it on research showing that chimpanzees trick and basically screw one another over in the competition for food and sex. Inevitably, they call their theory "machiavellian intelligence". The cover of their book has a Ralph Steadman cartoon of a chimp dressed in Renaissance clothes, running away with a banana got through skulduggery.

Machiavelli's name has a fire-and-brimstone resonance that makes it live like few others from the past. His manual quite clearly describes the rituals of pretence, backbiting and mutual aggression that have driven the relationship between Blair and Brown for a decade now. Not only that, but Machiavelli would have approved of their behind-the-scenes dastard liness, seeing their peculiarly artful hatred as entirely natural, human, and - crucially - productive. Yet neither Blair nor Brown nor any practising politician is honest or perhaps clever enough to take the description machiavellian - the word, according to the OED, needs no capital - as a compliment. That doesn't mean they don't read him or at least, like chimps, prove his theories. Machiavelli said what others conceal. As Christopher Marlowe has him sneer, "Admir'd I am of those that hate me most."

The first rule of the Machiavelli club is never to mention Machiavelli. Working politicians, from the conspirators and assassins of Elizabethan England to our own time, have found that it is better to read The Prince in private. Now, however, is the time for Niccolò to speak to us directly, without a mask, as the potential saviour of politics in our time.

We live in times of total contempt for the machiavellian art of the politician. Backstairs deals, spin and chicanery are abominated. Any gulf between public statement and private reality is reviled, as if we had caught our parents in bed. When it comes to politics, we have reverted to a Victorian virginity: if the moral criteria professed by modern electorates were taken seriously, no government could last more than a week.

Machiavelli saw beauty and truth in what we now despise as sleazy cynicism. Perhaps the key to his thinking is that not only did he become a character on the Elizabethan stage but he himself was a dramatist. The writing that gave him his greatest success in his lifetime, and a partial rehabilitation in Medici Florence, was his play Mandragola, one of the funniest comedies in the Italian language, still a classic alongside Pirandello and Dario Fo. Machiavelli's instinct for drama is crucial to understanding him. He wrote his play Clizia for a performer he fell in love with, the singer and courtesan Barbera Raffacani Salutati. He relished a good performance - and politics for him was just that.

We need to start thinking like this again, just a little bit. It is absurd for citizens of a democracy to be so wilfully naive about politics as to see in every gap between ideal and action, every decision of a less than utopian nature, the operation of Satan in the world. Which is what we imply when we condemn all politicians as liars, manipulators and spin merchants. Isn't that their job? Would we want to be governed by moral zealots, like the Jacobins who came to power in France after 1789 and ended up massacring everyone, including themselves, in the pursuit of an absolutely authentic political voice?

Machiavelli advises the Prince to lie and dissimulate. This is a far more subtle recommendation than it seems to those it horrifies. What he is trying to get at is the opacity and irony of human affairs. Between cause and effect falls the shadow. There is such distance between you and the people, he counsels the Prince, that they can only judge you by your remote image, and do not know what you really are. You can project any image you want. Machiavelli's description strangely anticipates the media age - this inability to know the real person behind the fixed smile is exactly what makes politics so repulsive now.

But Machiavelli's honesty might also be the antidote. Politicians need to stop concealing their debt to him. They need to speak his name. They need to praise his lack of hypocrisy, and emulate it, by revealing the dirty -- and, in many cases, necessary and explicable - truth about what they do.

Tony Blair has more to gain than most. A Christian, whose political style is sincerity, he has come to be seen as a hypocrite who led Britain into an imperial war, much as the pious liberal Gladstone took us into Egypt in the 19th century. And this time it isn't even our empire. The public Blair is a Gladstonian humbug. The private one is almost certainly more human.

"A prince should never join an aggressive alliance with someone more powerful than himself," cautioned Machiavelli. "This is because if you are the victors, you emerge as his prisoner."

Of course you can't turn Machiavelli into an anti-war voice. He liked war. At any rate, he thought it necessary. And the long-dead Machiavelli did indirectly advise Blair to go to war. It was reported that Philip Bobbitt's book The Shield of Achilles: War, Peace and the Course of History (2002) was required reading for Blair and his circle as they prepared to make war on Saddam Hussein. Bobbitt, an experienced White House adviser who argues that we cannot choose whether to fight the wars of our epoch but can decide when, is a disciple of Machiavelli, taking 826 pages to give advice that Machiavelli delivered in a pithy paragraph.

"Political disorders can be quickly healed if they are seen well in advance," Machiavelli says in The Prince. The masters of such foresight were the ancient Romans, who "saw when troubles were coming and always took counter-measures. They never, to avoid a war, allowed them to go unchecked, because they knew that there is no avoiding war; it can only be postponed to the advantage of others."

I'm not saying this is why Blair went to war. But some such machiavellian reasoning must have lain behind his decision. If only he would say what it was. He will not, of course. All politicians fail in the end, said Machiavelli, because human beings are "obstinate", and cannot change their natures.

Machiavelli knew this because he was, himself, not a smooth success at all. He was an idealist who suffered for his beliefs. He believed profoundly in republicanism, the right of a people to decide its own form of government, and loyally served the government of the popular republic of Florence for 14 years. But in 1512 the Medici family, expelled in 1494, returned to power and took vicious revenge on their enemies. Machiavelli, suspected of plotting against them, was imprisoned and tortured. After his release he was excluded from public life. This ambitious 43-year-old had no choice but to retire to his farm outside Florence, where he wrote The Prince and Discourses in a mood of deprivation and loneliness. Used to chatting to ambassadors and generals, he was suddenly spending his days - he wrote to a friend - playing cards with local yobs in the village pub. At night, however, he entered a world of his own. After dinner he went into his study, put on his courtly robes, and talked about politics with his intellectual peers - Cicero and Livy, Aristotle and Alexander the Great. This imaginary political discussion nourished Machiavelli with "the only food that is mine".

Politics was, literally, his cibo , his food; in another letter he mentions how he and his friends, denied statecraft, pretend they are alive. Machiavelli lived only for politics, and after 1512 never got enough of it. This is why The Prince is such a wonderful read. It is his love letter to statesmanship, to the adult fun of working for the administration - its appeal resembles that of The West Wing, or more accurately Primary Colors. This contrasts deeply with the hatred most people nowadays have for those who enter the inherently impure realm of political action. Machiavelli could never have shared our moral disdain - it would have left him with nothing to talk about. He cannot discuss the wool and silk trades like other Florentines, he says in apology for a letter dispensing unrequested advice. He can only reason about the state.

For him, the feud between Blair and Brown would not have been a thing of shame and embarrassment. It would satisfy him like a bleeding slab of Tuscan steak. This is it, he might tell the Labour MPs frightened for their futures; this is the life you chose. Try to relish it, washed down with a nice glass of chianti. As for what Brown said to Blair - what a prude it exposes Brown to be. The chancellor is reported to have told the prime minister that there is nothing Blair could ever say now he will believe. Is this supposed to be criticism, Machiavelli might ask? Because a true politician would savour it as praise.

· Jonathan Jones's book on art and politics, In Machiavelli's Florence, will be published later this year.


「 coolgoh posted at 1:47 PM 」
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Surprised that no one bothered to write a reply to him

GROWING PAINS
Meritocracy should be more than academic In its true form, it values experience, character and ability in all senses
By Christopher Choo

ONE of Singapore's core values is meritocracy, a system in which advancement is based on individual ability or achievement.

This is shown by the increased number of bond-breakers in recent years and the stories of disgruntled scholars clamouring for greener pastures.

Unfortunately, with the overriding emphasis on academic records and co-curricular activities (CCA) before prospective scholars are granted interviews, many candidates fall through the cracks.

The problem with academic meritocracy is it is only useful to recognise a certain kind of talent. It favours students who are good at fact retention, essay writing, CCA participation and taking up leadership positions, regardless of their effectiveness in those roles.

Not surprisingly, while the system turns out students who are excellent at studies, many lack communication and organisational skills required by administrators in the civil service.

If our scholars deserved to be compared to each other based on such extreme benchmarks, the Government would be spoilt for choice when it comes to recruiting talent. But sadly, it is not.

Singapore has continually had to attract foreign talent to complement Singaporeans, which suggests there are some qualities missing in students here.

The system also fails when it comes to identifying other characteristics that lie beneath the surface of an academic record.

Qualities such as problem-solving abilities, being able to think on the spot, innovation, creativity, risk-taking and true leadership ability cannot be determined accurately by a 25-minute scholarship interview panel or a one-week leadership camp.

Academic meritocracy needs to be replaced by a more idealistic yet practical version - one that values experience, character and ability in both an academic and non-academic sense.

First, scholarship selection criteria should be modified to recognise polytechnic diploma holders and equivalent qualifications more favourably.

CCAs and other activities in which students participate should be considered on an even footing compared to academic achievement. This will allow a greater variety of students to get past the first round of screening.

Next, local universities need to be more transparent in their student admission process. Instead of merely assigning weights for project work and A-level achievement, they should consider students based on a wider variety of criteria.

While some universities have experimented by reserving a few hundred places for students with exceptional non-academic achievements, such criteria should be applied across the board to provide a platform for academic excellence to be compared directly with non-academic achievements.

Finally, an approach to re-engineer the primary school syllabus by adding more components into Primary School Leaving Examination (PSLE) results will ensure our youngest minds learn the importance of activities outside the academic realm.

This can be done by including a CCA component in the PSLE score, and awarding bonus points for community service or activities outside of school.

The reality in life is that most things are non-examinable. Instilling in students a false belief that examinations are a sufficient indicator of success will only set them up for disappointment further down the road.

The writer is a second-year Informations Systems Management student at the Singapore Management University.


「 coolgoh posted at 1:45 PM 」
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Sunday, February 06, 2005

How's moving castle!!!!

harlow! hey! let's go watch Howl's Moving Castle together!!! by Ghibli STudio! hee!

eh... ya we can catch howl next sat! anybody on for that???

save on dinner-eh spend minimum on it (what goes in comes out anyway) and go for da movie???

http://www.onlineghibli.com/


「 Siew Kuang posted at 1:37 AM 」
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