dhs4K01: January 2005
Sunday, January 30, 2005

DHS 4k Guys Still Unattached!?

Talking to a friend of mine online who just got rejected by a girl. Then I realise to my horror that with the exception of OFFICER WEE HONG,(who dances his way from dhs, pass SOC and through OCS) all the rest of the 4k guys are unattached!!!

Market distortion sia.. even that fat guy has got 1000 girls wanting him...wah lao... buck up guys! losers in the love field can import foreign talent, what a novel idea...

Vietnam's house of virgins
300 S'porean men have found brides there
By Chua Kong Ho
IN AN industrial suburb in Ho Chi Minh City, a single-storey zinc-roofed factory staffed by 3,500 young women churns out items like sports shoes and polo T-shirts for foreign brands.
VIETNAMESE 'BRIDES' FACTORY
-- JOYCE FANG
Girls pull long 12-hour shifts in factory
New arrivals are checked for signs of previous pregnancies. Those who fail are sent back.
Chosen ones get medical exam to check that hymen is intact.

It's not unlike hundreds of other factories, except this one has something else: virgin brides for foreign men.
The Mr Cupid International Matchmakers service was the brainchild of the factory's owner, a reclusive semi-retired Vietnamese man in his 40s.
While businesses offering brides are hardly rare, the idea of using eligible young virgins as workers while they wait for husbands is almost certainly unique.
At first, the factory hired scouts to scour the countryside for suitable virgin village girls they could advertise to foreign bachelors through their agencies in countries like Singapore, Taiwan, South Korea and Malaysia.
Now they don't have to go looking. Parents bring their daughters to them.
Girls like willowy 20-year-old Huynh Thi Phuong Thuy put up with long shifts sewing shirts and glueing shoes hoping it is a first step to marriage.
MR CHAN FOUND HIS BRIDE Nguyen Thi Minh Huei, 20, during a matchmaking tour. The 44-year-old assistant engineer got married to her last year. -- MR CUPID
'I went to work in the factory because I wanted to marry a foreign man,' she told The Sunday Times in a phone interview.
Ms Phuong Thuy got what she wanted.
She married a 40-year-old Singaporean storeman last July and now lives in Jurong.
'Life in Singapore is much better than back in Vietnam,' she said.
But the factory won't take just anyone. In fact, there are strict quality controls.
New arrivals are given the once-over by matronly female supervisors who look out for telltale signs of previous pregnancies, such as stretch marks or caesarean scars.
Those who fail are sent back.
Those chosen are given a medical examination to check that their hymen is still intact. If it isn't, they are rejected.
After being hired, the women are expected to work hard and behave well.
Female supervisors at the factory penalise lazy, talkative or rebellious girls by barring them from matchmaking sessions. No work, no husband.
Said Mr Martin Wong, managing director of Mr Cupid's Singapore office: 'These girls are marrying abroad. They have to be obedient to their husbands.
'We're preparing them for their new lives.'
Before she got married, Ms Phuong Thuy used to work 12-hour shifts seated on bare floors, earning less than $5 a day.
But despite the long hours, most village girls find life at the factory easier than working the padi fields, plantations or shrimp farms back home, where many of them had no electricity or running water, ate one meal a day and bathed in river or rainwater.
So far, Mr Cupid has found brides for around 1,800 men in the region, 300 of them in Singapore.
The girls are given photographs of the men and they choose whether they want to go for the matchmaking session. After that, the decisions are down to the men.
The process can be brutal. In one case, 2,200 girls wanted to be set up with a Taiwanese businessman.
'Can you imagine, they're so hopeful. They stay back in the dormitories, dress up and they only have two seconds to impress before they're turned away,' said Mr Wong, in an interview at Mr Cupid's second-floor office at Pearl's Centre in Eu Tong Sen Street.
If the groom makes his choice, the rest of those in the queue are sent back.
It sounds degrading, but Mr Wong insists the young women are willing.
'They're born in a poor country. For many of them, this is their only chance to break out of poverty,' he said.
For many, it's a long wait. Out of the 3,500 girls working at the factory, only about 300 get hitched each year.
The prettier ones usually get chosen within six months, while some have gone for more than 200 matchmaking sessions without success.
Most quit after two or three years and go back home if they haven't been chosen, said Mr Wong.
Some cling on.
The oldest worker there is a 35-year-old seamstress, who faithfully works her shifts and lives in hope of being picked one day.


「 coolgoh posted at 10:31 AM 」
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Saturday, January 15, 2005

In Search of a Dream

Young, successful - and in search of a dream
>DANIEL BUENAS


UNHAPPY - that's how I feel as a young Singaporean.

I feel this way not because I'm jobless, poor or uneducated. In fact, I have a good job, a stable income and a good education. By most standards, I should be considered a successful young man.


However, I am slowly realising that the achievements I have been chasing are, perhaps, a chimera. I have sought and yearned for success, when perhaps what I should have been looking for was happiness, or meaning in life.

This is the dilemma that the youth in Singapore face - we cannot reconcile our apparent success with our gnawing dissatisfaction withlife, and nobody can tell us why.

What we suffer from is a crisis of the soul.

Young Singaporeans are getting lost in a world in which our worth as human beings is tied to our material, social and physical successes.

However, as we look behind these successes, we often find the faded vestiges of what once were our dreams. Thus, our life's purpose has been drowned in the ocean of practicality.

This distinction between success and happiness was brought home to me recently after the death of a friend. He had passed on suddenly and in the prime of his life, and his death shook me from the stupor of endless days of work.

I realised that I had perhaps neglected my family and friends around me and, in so doing, had lost the true meaning of life.

It is too late now, but if I could speak to my friend one last time, I wouldn't say anything. Instead, I would listen to what he had to say. Why? Because Singaporeans are too busy rushing to work, rushing from work and rushing at work. We don't take the time to listen to others.

His death made me reflect on my own life, and the search for happiness. Sadly, the need to find meaning in life wasn't one of the things I learnt at school. The need for success, however, was.

The desire for success is ingrained in our national psyche, and has been pursued with a fervour that equals - and often surpasses - religious zeal.

From young, we are streamed, labelled and forced into educational moulds, emerging as world-class products of our world-class education system. We graduate equipped to be successful in life.

Yet, I feel that in some way, we are lacking. I was never taught to pursue my dreams. Instead, I was taught to be practical. I chose my field of study, computer science, and my university based on practical considerations. I thought this would eventually lead to success. But success doesn't always translate into happiness.

Perhaps my idealism is brought about by a life that has not known the cruelty of war, or the bitter struggle for survival. Yet, I have met thosewho hold on to similar ideals, despite going through great suffering.

For instance, I recently interviewed a well-respected academic who spoke at length with me on the virtues of finding meaning and purpose in what we do. He was no stranger to suffering, having lived through the Japanese occupation, the Communist revolution in China and nearly starving to death as a young boy. After so much hardship, one would expect him to extol the virtues of being practical.

Instead, he spoke of passion, desire, purpose and happiness in what we do.I found it ironic that it took a senior citizen to point this out to what he called 'a handsome, energetic young man' (what I found even more ironic was his use of the word 'handsome').

Singaporean youth need to learn that our lives are not just about achieving success and that we cannot rely on the government or society to provide us with the reason for our existence. If we do, we will surely come away disillusioned and disappointed.

More than anything, Singaporean youth need to know that the beauty of life lies in fulfilling our own dreams - not someone else's - and that we should not fear pursuing them, whatever they may be. There in lies our road to happiness.

As Eleanor Roosevelt so eloquently put it: 'The future belongs to those who believe in the beauty of their dreams'.

The writer is a BT journalist. He is 24.



「 Hiu Yeung posted at 8:51 PM 」
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Tuesday, January 04, 2005

Intellectual Sophistry

Presenting to you, my most contrived and convoluted piece of academic work: Monarchy as the Best Form of Government. haha.

Monarchy as the Best Form of Government

The origin of government is concomitant with the advent of human civilization. Today, the pervasive presence of democracy in modern states and the propaganda preached by its advocates have led to the unquestioning assumption that democracy is the best form of government. Throughout the course of history, philosophers such as Plato and Hobbes have challenged the merits of democracy while highlighting the virtues of monarchy. However, the merits of monarchy are rarely proclaimed today; and the clamor for the abolishment of the few surviving monarchies is constantly reverberating in the public sphere. In Book Three of Herodotus’s Histories, there is a debate over the best form of government by the conspirators after the failure of the Magis to usurp the throne. While the lengthy debate that leads to the triumph of monarchy is inconceivable in the modern world, it suggests that there are strengths in monarchy that make it so attractive to its proponents. This paper will discuss the various merits of democracy and monarchy during Herodotus’s time, and argue that while democracy has its strengths; monarchy can be the best form of government under certain circumstances.

Possibility of Benevolent Dictatorship

The benevolent monarch will bring justice and prosperity to his people. As Darius points out, the monarch’s “judgment will be keeping with his character, his control of the people will be beyond reproach” (3. 208). Upon his succession to the throne, Darius seems to be upholding justice by punishing Orotes for “his many crimes” (3.224). More importantly in an age of lawlessness, Darius is able to bring stability back to Persia by setting up a well-run administrative system with a sound tax collection mechanism. Similarly, Herodotus gives the impression that Cyrus is a good ruler, as the Persians welcome him with enthusiasm because he presents “the prospect of liberty” (1.59). Furthermore, Herodotus expresses admiration that during the reign of Cyrus, even a king cannot “put a person to death for a single offence” (1.63). This suggests that even though Cyrus has absolute powers, he is restrained in his actions and does not abuse his authority. This is consistent with Cyrus’ behavior towards Astyages. Cyrus treats Astyages with “great consideration” (1.61), a surprising move of great magnanimity, given the fact that the latter had tried to murder him when he is merely a baby. Furthermore, the Persians described Cyrus as a “father” (1.212), who always “in the kindness of his heart … is occupied with plans for their well-being” (1.212).

Often, the people do not want democracy and demand monarchy when they admire a wise and just ruler. In Herodotus’s Histories, Deioces is one such ruler who has a reputation for “just dealings” and “perfect integrity” (1.46). He is so popular and effective that everyone seeks his arbitration and when he ceases being the judge, the country descends into anarchy. After Deioces becomes king, he does not become a despot, but rather continues “his strict administration of justice” (1.47) bringing welfare and prosperity to the people. The example of Deioces contradicts Lord Acton’s dictum that “Power corrupts, Absolute Power corrupts absolutely.” Another example is that of Samos. The people of Samos “did not want liberty” (3.233) as they turn down the offer of Maeandrius, who wants to “surrender the power” (3.232) he had to the people. Even Maeandrius himself realizes that even if he does not want absolute power, the people do not want democracy, and would not object to any individual interested in seizing absolute power.

A monarch can make better informed and consistent policies than that of a democratic governor. This is because in a monarchy, a monarch can select experts and obtain their advice in private, whereas the nature of democracy makes it susceptible to public pressure. Furthermore, a monarch’s policy is more consistent since he is of one mind. This is in direct contrast to what Otanes proclaims, that “a king is the most inconsistent of men” (3. 207). Cyrus listens to the sound advices of Croesus, halting the plunder of the Persian troops without incurring their hatred (1.42). Similarly, Darius adopts the suggestions of wise counsels which contribute to his success. For instance, Zopyrus’s clever ruse allows Darius to capture Babylon (3.236).

While public scrutiny with its resultant pressure can lead to inconsistent policies, paradoxically, it can be democracy’s strength at the same time. For instance, there are monarchs like Xerxes who are too haughty to listen to their advisors. At various crucial junctures of the military campaign, Xerxes rejected the advices of Artabanus, Artemisa, Demaratus which lead to his own defeat. It is possible to argue that a democratic governor with poor policies will be overruled by an informed public, although it is unlikely as the majority of the population in Herodotus’s time is uneducated. The influences of superstitious forces in Herodotus’s time must also be taken into account. Xerxes is misled by the prophetic dream of being the master of Europe, which compels him to embark on a military campaign which he has doubts after Artabanus’s counsel (7.422).

Athenian Democracy and Mob Rule

Athenian democracy is in reality more like mob rule. Thomas Jefferson once said that “Democracy is nothing more than mob rule, where fifty-one percent of the people may take away the rights of the other forty-nine”. The mob is often fickle and capricious, “handling affairs without thought” (3.208). In the Histories, there are examples that show the wanton brutality and idiocy of the mob. For instance, the villagers welcomed Pissistratus with “open arms” (1.26) simply because they thought that Pallas Athena is showing him “extraordinary honor” (1.26) and bringing him back to the Acropolis. One of the criteria for the smooth running of democracy is an educated populace. However the Athenians in Herodotus’s time tend to be uneducated and superstitious, causing them to fall into Pissistratus’s ruse. Furthermore in the Histories, Herodotus seems to be favoring monarchy by suggesting that a mob is easier to dupe than a single, wise individual. It is mentioned that Aristagoras “who had failed to impose upon Cleomenes, succeeded with thirty thousand Athenians” (5.351). Apparently, Aristagoras has managed to fool the Athenians into an alliance with him which allows him to satisfy his own agenda.

At least in Herodotus’s Histories, it is specious to assume that wise and informed decisions will come from democracy and the majority. Under certain circumstances, the minority or individual may make more judicious judgments. For instance, Themistocles’s sound advice to stay in Salamis and fight the Persians is rebuffed by the majority of the commanders. The Peloponnesian and the majority of commanders wanted to take flight and almost deprive the Greeks of a great victory over the Persians. Hence, there is no guarantee that multiple actors in a decision making process will necessarily arrive to a better decision than a single actor.

Intellectuals such as Socrates and Plato believe that democracy in Herodotus’s time resembles mob rule. The presence of the mob challenges the claim that democracy offers freedom of speech. The only crime that Lycidas committed was to “express opinion” (9.555), in accepting the Persian proposals, but he is stoned to death by the Athenian mob. Herodotus further describes the ghastly brutality of the mob:

The Athenian women soon sound out what happened, whereupon without a word from the men, they got together, and, each one urging on her neighbout and taking her along with the crowd flocked to Lycidas’ house and stoned his wife and children 9.555

Furthermore, it is difficult to conceive democracy working in places such as Scythia, where human sacrifices are practiced by the society and cannibalism is customary (4. 261). If the society cannot even recognize the sanctity of life, it is difficult to envisage a scenario where the society will value the equal human rights of every single individual in a democracy.

Checks and Balances in Democracy and Monarchy

Proponents of democracy argue that one major weakness of monarchy is that it breeds tyranny and brutality. To a certain extent, Otanes is right in pointing out that the vices of monarchy are “pride” and “envy”, which lead to “savage and unnatural violence”(3.207). There are numerous examples of tyrants in the Histories that commit atrocities. For instance, Cambyses murders his own brother, Smerdis, and commits incest by marrying his sister. Queen Pheretima brutally slaughters the people of Barca. All these examples would suggest that there is a flaw in the character of the despots, if not in the very nature of monarchy itself, as there are no checks and balances of power.

However, one has to ask whether these actions of inhumanity stem from the type of political system or whether it is the culture and general human nature in Herodotus’s time. If savage actions originate from the nature of monarchy, technically, democratic Athens should not be committing brutal crimes. Yet, Athens is responsible for the sack and “burning of Sardis”, which sows the seeds of its woes with Persia. Furthermore, the rule of the mob can parallel the rule of despots, which is neither “pleasant” nor “good” (3.207). Xanthippus, the Athenian commander in Book Nine, rejects the plea and offer of Artayctes. He allows the mob to nail Artayctes to “a plank and hung him up”. Furthermore, the son “was stoned to death before his eyes” (9.603). These incidents do not alleviate the crimes of despots, but rather illustrates that primitive barbarity can exist independently of the type of political system. One has to bear in mind that during Herodotus’s time, universal suffrage is a nonexistent concept. Even the Athenians keep slaves, with philosophers such as Aristotle justifying slavery, claiming that there is nothing wrong with slavery as long as the slaves are inferior to the masters. Subjection of human beings and even brutality are not necessarily morally wrong in antiquity and when criticizing the excesses of monarchy, one should be aware of the pitfall of using our humanistic moral universe.

One of the strengths of democracy is that the public official is supposed to be accountable to the public. As Otanes argues, “Under the government of the people a magistrate is appointed by the lot and is held responsible for his conduct in office” (3.207). Theoretically, this is an advantage of democracy that allows the people to check the tyranny of despots. Yet, to what extent does electing a magistrate by “lot” make democracy a better form of government? It is not inconceivable for a man of mediocre aptitude to become a magistrate, while a better man is left unutilized by the lot system. If society agrees that meritocracy is to be upheld, the charge that monarchy allows incompetent people to come to power is equally applicable to Athenian democracy.

Perhaps only in Herodotus’s Histories, checks and balances exist in the monarchy as well. Divine intervention permeates throughout the narration and preternatural forces seem to provide a loose form of checks and balances. The tyrant Cambyses dies from the wound on his thigh at the “spot where he had previously struck Apis the sacred Egyptian bull” (3.199). Astyages loses his empire due to Harpargus’s conspiracy, the very man to whom he does a gross injustice. As for Queen Pheretima, Herodotus describes her as “having a horrible death, body seething with worms while she was alive” (4.310). As Herodotus points out several times in the work, excesses beyond limits draw the wrath of the gods. Descriptions such as “all excess in revenge draws upon the men the anger of the gods” (4.310), and “It is always the great buildings and tall trees that are struck by lighting” (7.420), suggest that pride comes before a fall, and that the hubris of the despots will eventually lead to their downfall. All the major monarchs from Croesus to Cyrus, Darius, and Xerxes suffer defeat once they have overambitious and lofty goals. As such, it is possible to argue that, in the Histories, even when monarchy as a political system produces excesses and despots, divine intervention can obstruct the actions of the despots and restore balance in the social realm.

Democracy and Monarchy in the State of War

During the state of war, a monarchy is the best form of government in the sense that “measures against enemies and traitors will be kept secret more easily” (3. 208). In a pure democracy, where the public have access to classified military information, the state may be compromised by the leakage of crucial military information to the enemy. Furthermore, in a monarchy, it is easier to enforce discipline and launch concerted actions. This is substantiated by the actions of the free Ionians who refuse to follow the commands of Dionysius and would rather be enslaved by the Persians. Yet, this is not an issue in the Persian army, where the soldiers followed orders without question, if only because of fear. During the Salamis battle, every Persian fought as hard as they could. This is highlighted through Herodotus’s words “Every man of them did their best for fear of Xerxes, feeling that the king’s eye was on him” (8.529).

Herodotus himself seems to be in favor of democracy producing better fighters.

He claims that “once the yoke was flung off, they proved the finest fighters in the world” (5.340). Athens is described as going from “strength to strength” (5. 340), winning wars as a result of democracy. Apparently, Herodotus believes that warriors under democracy can fight better because they are no longer “slaves” and are working for their own self interests instead that of their masters. These statements combined with the knowledge that the Greeks eventually triumph over the Persians suggest that democracy produces superior fighters than monarchy during war. Yet, this must be qualified by the fact that the gods favor the Greeks, contributing in significant ways to their military successes.

Although the Athenians win many sea battles, many of the land battles are won by the Spartans. Sparta is technically a monarchy (or an oligarchy); since the position of the king is hereditary and major executive decisions are undertaken by him. In Sparta, the absolute power of the monarch is substituted with that of the law. As Demaratus explains to Xerxes, the Spartans are not free as they fear the “law, which they fear much more than the subjects fear…” him (7.451). Regardless of the odds, the Spartans do not retreat and will “conquer or die” (7.450).As a result, the Spartans are famed for their fighting prowess and valor in war. In the Histories, Sparta has demonstrated that a monarchy can produce equally courageous fighters like those from Athenian democracy. This seems to contradict Herodotus’s assertion that only a democracy will produce superior combatants.

The nature of the military dictates the need for decisive actions with minimal dissent. Othanes argues that one of the strength of democracy is that “all questions are put up for open debate” (3. 207). Yet, this is a handicap during a war. During the battle of Salamis, the open discussion debate leads to bickering among the Greek commanders over how best to deal with the Persian fleet. An impasse is reached with no decisive actions taken to deal with the Persians. If not for the scheme of Thermistocles, which forces the Greeks to fight or perish, it is likely that the free discussion style of the war council will lead to the disintegration of the Greek coalition.

In Herodotus’s time, the arguments seem to favor monarchy as the best form of government under certain circumstances. A benevolent dictatorship can meet the needs of the people by providing welfare and justice. Furthermore, during a state of war, a monarchy has effective measures and war capabilities against its enemies. Even though it is true that the absolute power of the monarchy can breed excesses; in Herodotus’s universe, there is a self-correcting divine universe to check the arbitrary powers of despots. Modern day proponents of democracy should bear in mind that democracy has its limitations and that there are merits in more authoritarian forms of government. The task at hand is to delve into the merits of monarchy in Herodotus’s time and examine their relevance to the modern world. Through this, we will have a better appreciation of the political evolution that leads to the present form of American government, and hopefully caution while imposing democracy in nascent states around the world.



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「 coolgoh posted at 3:02 PM 」
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Monday, January 03, 2005

many gaths

hey! i just realised that we had gathering almost every month... was looking tru the archives... we skipped nov -that's cos NUS had exams... and our new year party's kinda half dec half jan...

cool eh! we meet so often! hee.

next gath.. let's go to the tea party for tea! hee. lau yu sheng?


「 Siew Kuang posted at 1:36 AM 」
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last but not least, probably the best picture of all... happy family!  Posted by Hello


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the 3 girls who stayed over! Posted by Hello


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TK, amused. wenhann, very very amused. Posted by Hello


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xumin and peixuan! Posted by Hello


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jeffrey waving his hands? Posted by Hello


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laughing about sth jeff said abt her fork and knife... Posted by Hello


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guess who this is.. Posted by Hello


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wenhann.. dreaming..of? Posted by Hello


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TK! finished breakfast already.  Posted by Hello


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songyu, having seconds... hotcakes Posted by Hello


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peixuan posing with her big breakfast! Posted by Hello


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big breakfast at macs! xumin! Posted by Hello


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only shot i took of the breakwater experience.. haha.. we all sat in a long row... TK, JK, Junming, wenhann, xumin, peixuan, songyu. Posted by Hello


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food! fish! "fish has no taste.. no fishie taste.."TK Posted by Hello


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wen hann! see what i mean by XY being the umbrella man? so was wenhann... how romantic eh... hee. Posted by Hello


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they had special postings too.. XY is apparently the umbrella stand.. and wenhann was the butterman.. hee.. dun u think songyu(the guy in black shirt)'s side profile looks a bit like chin's? at first i thought it was chin.. haha...  Posted by Hello


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grinz.. i like this pic somehow.. the guys bbq in the dark, under the umbrellas... with a shaft of light on them...  Posted by Hello


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soak yee, jess, peixuan, shi mei and me! (the guys were trying very hard to start the fire at this point of time... and it was raining and shi mei had to leave liao.. so we only took the girls... Posted by Hello


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maggie and siewky! Posted by Hello


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Sunday, January 02, 2005

big hugz to everyone!

harlow!

to all who were there for the new year party - *big hugz*
Thanks! Despite the rain and cloudy wet "sunrise", I really enjoyed myself. As far as I can remember, it's my bestest New year celebration, and of course a huge huge contrast to the one i had last year working at the Esplanade. i did what i wanted to do, greet this brand new year with lots of laughter and with great friends by my side. thanks to all who made it happen. sounds mushy but yeah, I love 4K!

A big thank you to TK for starting this whole thing and getting ppl to stay.
and to jeffrey for his place and being a great host.
and to shi mei who came, despite the short stay. a great start! hee.
and xumin who came very late and stayed over!
and peixuan who was there all the way and always so encouraging and optimistic.
and soak yee! and jessica! for all the laughter they brought with interesting stories...hee
junming who came despite having woken at 4.55am...and slept tru big breakfast.. hee
songyu and wenhann who came and stayed and carried that heavy mahjong set and all the stories that entertained us so much... haha and xiaoyang! who came despite morning duty..
and kian sin always can depend on him to come for gaths!
and weihong and kangxun for cycling all the way there to eat fish and corn and potatoes and cycle back to fren's...

for those who didn't stay or couldn't make it.. here's what we did! hee
-bbq in the rain.. guys were great -bbqed under umbrellas (chk out the pics!) so we girls sat in the porch and waited.. cos we couldn't help...
-lotsa lovely food. love the garlic bread and mushrooms.. hee. and the fishie... songyu's fav! i thot it was too fishy while TK said it had no taste... hahah. no chao ta food.
-watched Amelie~! hee.. glad you guys enjoyed the show. ya and we paused the show (and successfully rewinded it instead) to count down.. and our watches weren't synchronised... and we all waited for jeffrey's clock to chime.. but it didn't.. haha.. so funny. den we went back to the show. haha.
-walked out for supper -prata! we had lotsas kosong pratas, double egg, single egg, cheese, and plaster-egg outside prata inside!!! and teh tarik ice!
-and we walked back and tried to chk out the what's the name petrol station's 5 star toilet but it was locked.. and we sang and we saw this nike shaped bushy tingy...and we shouted at each other across the road and wenhann barked like a dog... and monkeys.. and jeff had to climb over a wall..
- 3 Xbox consoles 8 sleepy people... kick and kick and kick.. muahahahhaah.
- some fell asleep while junming and wenhann battled more evil with ninja turtles..
- walked out to ECP for "sunrise". many many tents littered on the beach and grass. sat on wet wet wet breakwater.... cold cold cold. hungry hungry hungry. junming and his sun. aeroplane wishes. no sunrise although the day got brighter and brighter...
- happy ending with MAc Big Breakfast! *macs is rolling in money*

cheers! to all of us 4Kpeople! and for the many more happy days we will have together!
yadayadayada... *winks

*HUgZ*

kalala,
Siew Kuang


「 Siew Kuang posted at 11:22 PM 」
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Geography Olympics

Go check this out! The quiz is quite fun especially if you like altas-reading.

http://www.geographyolympics.com

Now I know how seriously screwed up are Singaporeans in terms of knowing where each country is. Go and look at the scoreboard... Or maybe we are just simply honest or got sabo-ed...

You guys should be able to get at least 70%. Because I did. Haha =)


「 Hiu Yeung posted at 7:23 PM 」
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HAPPY NEW YEAR!

Hey Guys and Gals of 4k! A big thanks to all of u fantastic pple who made da end of year celebration a BIG success! Damn good of u guys to show up....great to meet up wif all da pple who havent been "regulars"....yup. ITs great to welcome da new year with GREAT friends! and to all those who stayed....a big SORRY for da chiming thingy....really didnt know it would go mute =(
haha....to all those who watched for the elusive sunset with me on da anything but dry breakwater....and to all those who had a sleepy breakfast at MACs....and to da one who holds da muffin withe the knife and tears off a chunk wif a fork =P....you guys ROCK!!!
anyway,hope u guys enjoyed yourselves as much as I did! Have a great 2005 and may all your resolutions for the new year be fufilled! :P

Dominus Illuminatio Mea









p.s. can some1 wif pics pls upload? thanks a bunch!


「 LonG_GrEeN_EaRs posted at 6:28 PM 」
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